Hello!,
Well I thought I would write about whats been going on the last few days. My moms Friend was staying at my house, and it was hell. She showed up at 8 am on I forgot what day, it might have been sunday, from the looks of her I knew she wasn't exactly coherent, this is someone who has many issues which I don't care to mention, but basically she's just a very confrontational, dramatic person, I wish My mother would have learned to not be friends with this woman, there are a million differences between them, At first she stayed friends with this person because My mother had grown fond of her 3 yr old daughter, but now she doesn't have custody of her due to an issue with Acs.. if its one thing I learned people like Evelyn (my moms friend) they never change, They keep going in the same pattern, falling into the same habit, each and every time. Now sure there are people who have been able to change their life but the ones who do are few and far between.
Since my mother met this woman, her and just didn't get along, because Evelyn knows that I knew just the kind of person she is, and that my mother should not associate with such people.
My mother has a good heart and People tend to want to take advantage of that, I make sure that doesn't happen as best I can.
Alot happened these last few days, Evelyn turned my house upside down, now that shes gone Things are back to normal..
I think I didn't take the actions I should have during the whole situation because I was just stunned, I couldn't believe That After moving from the bronx and staying away from the bronx to avoid such drama that it follows me. Let me just assure you this will not happen again, If Evelyn thinks of showing up to stay over again, I don't care who is after her, or what problem she may have, she's not welcomed here.
On Monday Evelyn was already here, This was the day I argued with her, She started it by making a comment about how I don't do enough to help my mother, How dare she? I have been the only one here for since we left the bronx a few years ago, Even in the bronx, since I was 10 years old I felt like I had to be an adult because of the drama cause by my sister and other people in our lives at the time.. I also found it especially insulting coming from someone who isn't doing a damn thing for themselves period.
This may sound cheesy but my friend david and I have Traditions of watching Gossip girl on mondays and its been this way since we have known eachother, I was so upset about this comment she made that I had to leave or I don't know what I would have done. I walked to my friend dino's house over the williamsburg bridge into manhattan where he was waiting for me.. If it wasn't for the great friends I have always being there for me then I don't know what I would do..
xoxo
Carolyn
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